June 21, 2015 – A View from the Rectory Window

As Pope John XXIII said, “It is easier for a father to have children than for children to have a real father.”

I believe we can learn much about ‘real’ fatherhood from our biblical tradition.

Abraham is counted as the father of faith and is revered in Judaism, Islam and Christianity. The word “faith” is an important component to remember because it means trust in God and being able to rely on that which is dependable.

Abraham trusted God’s assurance that his children would become a great nation. The promise came at a point when he and his wife, Sarah, were elderly and childless. And yet Abraham believed that God could do what was foretold to him. He went forward in confidence that God could accomplish, through him, a benefit for all of the world.

Joseph of Galilee is an exemplary father in the Bible. He married Mary, despite the unusual circumstances of her pregnancy. He dared to be unconventional because he trusted that God was working through her and him. He was a righteous man who dared to take on the roles of husband and foster father. And as refugees from danger, after the birth of Jesus in Bethlehem, it is clear that he protected his family by going beyond what was familiar, to find a safe haven.

Another father that captures the imagination is a man called Jairus. We read about him in the Gospels of Mark, Matthew and Luke. He was a man of importance whose daughter was dying. He came to Jesus, fell at his feet and begged Jesus to help his child. The actions of Jairus revealed his character. He trusted that God could help. It didn’t matter that Jairus had wealth and prestige, he humbled himself for the sake of his daughter.

One more example is of a father who had two sons, one of whom went astray. This is, of course, the story told by Jesus of the prodigal son. The father in the parable teaches his two sons powerful lessons of love: the one who went astray discovered that his father’s care came to him even when he had run away from it and the other who struggled to understand such extravagant love in the face of his brother’s failures and his own fidelity. The father in the story, like God, never gave up on either of his children.

To our fathers, who have taught us trust, who have protected us, who have humbled themselves for us, and who have exemplified love –

Thank You and Happy Father’s Day,

Fr. Pete